Everyone is unique in this world, no matter what. Though it is even said that there exist seven other people who look exactly like you and also, many are born as twins - but their nature, their perception towards different things, ability to act and react in various situations, behavior towards self as well as others can never be exactly the same. You might be very much similar to a person genetically, but that is not the case when it comes to comparison on the basis of Personality-Philosophy-Perspective, I call it the P-P-P conundrum.
Now, the first one - "Personality" is nothing but what you make others feel about you, i.e., what you pretend to be from the outside. The second one - "Philosophy" is your own thought process, i.e., your own beliefs and ideologies - it may or may not differ from "Personality" depending upon how you choose to portray yourself. The third one - "Perspective" is your reaction towards certain events, incidents and daily-life situations that you encounter and find yourself in, i.e., your ability to perceive and deal with them in your own different way.
No one is perfect. In fact, the definition of Perfection also differs from one individual to another. We say many a times - "That person is not my type, he is different", but that shouldn't mean he has a bad nature because everyone in this world is liked by some others. Its your personal perspective, and you should not generalize it by saying that the person is bad. Its up to you to decide whether you can adjust with that bad different nature or not. If you can, just be with the person for his good things; otherwise, just don't fake it.
Remember, you don't hold the right to change anybody according to you or say things about any other person - you should only say or make decisions about yourself. Try to cope up with the P-P-P factor : don't expect that you would like everyone, and in turn, that each person would like you.
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